The four bases of dating
Your going to have to know yourself well enough to know what you are going to do, and be responsible enough to face the consequences. Instead I tell them that this is the ultimate puzzle anyone must solve.In the end we all chose to do what we think is right, and this defines us.I think a very safe age is when you are an adult, then it is your life, your body.You still by the way, will have adult responsibilities.“Um, hey dad, how old were you when you first got to third base, and do you have any advice?” – this may not be safe to ask in certain families.
So what age do you think she should be before she considers going that far?
So keep your communication with your friend open, and support her thinking about and talking about the things she wants and does.
That’s way more effective than saying things like “you shouldn’t do this.” Good luck!
On the other hand, I find it troubling that your friend wants to go to 3rd base without knowing what it is exactly.
How can she genuinely want something when she doesn’t know what’s involved? But even aside from that, safer sex has to do with communication.